When you were younger, what excited you most about your future? *

Becoming a parent and raising the next generation

Building a deep, lasting partnership with someone special

Achieving professional goals/status

Would you take action to become a parent on your own? (think: surrogacy, adoption, fostering) *

Absolutely

No way

Meh, maybe but I doubt it

When you spend time with others, where do you instinctively find yourself? *

Deep in conversation, sharing thoughts, dreams, and emotional moments together

Taking care of practical needs like managing the meals, organizing, or making sure everyone is comfortable

A little bit of this and a little bit of that - no pressure situations are my fav

Do you think couples should stay together if they’re only doing it “for the kids”? *

No, they should honor their own happiness and support the kids along the way

Yes, i understand the sacrifice and would probably make it, too

In your adolescence, did you take an active interest in kids? (think: babysitting, big brother/sister mentoring, coaching) (copy) *

Hard pass

Yes, totally!

Which statement is most true about your “social battery” level? *

As long as I’m with the people I care about, I rarely need alone time to recharge

I prefer to be around other people - it’s like my battery gets recharged

Being around people takes a lot of energy - I typically recharge solo

How likely are you to do things for others that you don’t want to do? *

Somewhat likely - I might feel burdened by it but wouldn’t cancel on them

Very likely - I enjoy helping others and typically offer before I’m asked

Unlikely - I’d either not commit in the first place or find a way to get out of it

If you went your whole life without having children, how do you think you’d feel? *

Relieved! Crisis successfully averted

A little bummed, like I missed out on something big, but I’d still feel good and everything else I got to do

Deeply unsettled, like something really important was missing the whole time

Mostly fine - I’d feel like my life was full of amazing moments and connections, with or without kids

If you had to choose one, which would you rather have? *

A mostly happy relationship without children

A mostly unhappy relationship while parenting children I adore

Which aligns with you more? *

I would be more ok without kids as long as I found a solid partner

I would be more ok without a partner as long as I became a parent

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